Everyday Creativity | Psychology Today

March 15th, 2010 by Trey | No Comments

  This is a wonderful article about how all human beings are innately creative. Everyday we solve problems and deal with situations in creative ways. When we realize this and embrace it, we won’t need to learn an artistic hobby just to cultivate our creativity.

After reading this article, I started trying to think of how I’m creative outside of my attempts at logo and web design. I suppose the most common way I flex that creative muscle is finding solutions to some of the more unique computer problems that I get myself into.

This is how I began learning how to fix computers.

Back in the day, when AfterDark was a big deal, I noticed that it played actual sound effects through my PC speaker when everything else just used beeps and boops. I spent a good deal of time convinced that if it could do that, the rest of my system could do that. Each attempt at loading the sound drivers for the rest of the system brought my dad’s computer to a grinding halt and required a flurry of creative ways to get it back up and running before he found out. I don’t remember if I was successful in fixing it without anyone knowing it was broken, but I can say that I learned A LOT of how a computer works while trying to fix it.

Almost on a daily basis, I, or my co-workers or friends are still able to come up with some unique ways to break computers, and I’m required to come up with equally creative ways to fix them.

What are some ways that you use your creativity every day?

::  Everyday Creativity | Psychology Today :: via Felicia Day on Twitter

Flynn Lives

March 9th, 2010 by Trey | 1 Comment

I’m a pretty big Tron fan, and I’m looking forward to the new movie coming out in December. However I think a buddy of mine is looking forward to it a little more than I am. Either way, they’ve put out a second trailer with a little more meat. This looks like it’s going to be really good.

Thought you might enjoy this, Argyle.

::Flynn Lives::

Noise to Signal

February 18th, 2010 by Trey | No Comments
Here’s the lesson I gave for last night’s (2-17-10) invitation. Audio has been added.

1 Kings 19:11-13

“Then He said, “Go out, and stand on the mountain before the LORD.” And behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
So it was, when Elijah heard it, that he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out.”

In order to hear a whisper — especially in a noisy environment — you have to get close to it and concentrate, and even remove the other sounds that are competing with it. On the other hand, a shout can be heard from quite a distance, and is heard whether or not we desire to listen to it.

God’s Word is a small, still voice. It’s a quiet, delicate whisper, not a shout. God doesn’t force his message on us, instead He expects us to focus and concentrate on it. Unfortunately when seeking God, we are often distracted by the noise and flash of our daily lives. We get so caught up in the business of being busy, that we forget to stop and listen to that still small voice by spending time with God in prayer and studying his Word.

I myself am guilty of letting other things distract me from studying on a daily basis. This weighs on my heart as I’ve urged people from this pulpit to study and don’t do it myself as often as I should.

Studying the Word daily is a great thing, an awesome concept, but until we actually do it, it just remains a concept. It remains something vague that we’ll “get around to” — like setting the clock on the VCR, or changing light bulbs around the house.

In order to make it real, we need to devise a plan, and apply this plan to our lives.

Christina and I know first hand how beneficial a plan can become in getting things done. When we first started talking about getting married, we decided that we would wait five years before we started having children. This was so that we could get to know each other better, and become financially stable. This July will be five years and we are just now starting to get out of debt.

Financial stability was just a grandiose concept to us that never got any application. Then last year my sister introduced us to Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University and we learned how to plan our finances. Having that plan enabled us to turn this concept, idea, what have you into a concrete application with results.

Lets make a plan and turn the concept of studying the Word into a concrete application.

With this in mind, I’m going to borrow from what I’ve learned while doing my finances. The most important thing we learned was the zero balance money budget where you account for every dollar you earn and spend in a month so you’ll know where all of your money is going.

Borrowing from this, I’ve created what I call the Zero Balance Time Budget, and it works the same way, you account for the time you earn –which by the way is the same for everyone, 1440 minutes per day– and allot it to the different activities in your life, making sure you account for every minute so that you’ll have 0 at the end. This will help us direct how we spend our time. Ephesians 5:15-16 says: “Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.”

On the sheet I’ve created, I’ve put down some of the basics that most people will have, and you’ll notice that Bible Study is first. We want to be like the Macedonians in 2 Corinthians 8, giving first to the Lord. I’ve also got several blanks here for you to fill in for you to customize to suit your needs.

I’ve also provided on the back a schedule to help plan things a little better. I’d like for you to take a sheet and go home and have a time budget meeting with your family. Try starting out with giving 15 minutes of uninterrupted personal time to God in the morning, then plan for another 15 minutes in the evening with the family together. When you do this, turn off your cell phones, your TVs, remove everything that could possibly distract you or drown out that quiet, delicate whisper.

And just to be clear, the idea behind this isn’t to section God off from the rest of your daily life. He is to be included in everything we do.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9 reads: “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one! You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.
“And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

The intent of this time budget is to allow you time to give 100% of your attention to God and the study of His Word.

As you grow in study, you’ll find that you’ll want to give more time to God. Don’t hesitate to revisit your time budget and add to it. The 30 minutes a day is just a starting point. We can never give enough of our time and energy, or money, or anything to repay God’s gift to us.

By the way, since all this is a rather new idea, I’d appreciate any suggestions for improvement to my forms and such. I want this to be as useful as possible.

One other thing that we learned was to have an accountability partner. To have someone that will hold us to what we need to do. My sister is ours, and we are hers. God’s design of the church gives us our own accountability partners: each other.

James 5:16 “Confess your trespasses (or sins) to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.”

Christians, if you haven’t been studying God’s word regularly, and you know that this is something that you should be doing, do something to change that tonight. James tells us, “Therefore to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.” I come to you tonight confessing that I need to study more regularly, and I need your help, encouragement and prayers that I’m able to start this and stay strong in doing it. Do you need the same?

If you are not a Christian yet, and you believe in God, then salvation is still just a concept, an idea. Fortunately God has a plan for you to help it become a concrete application with results in your life. His plan is this:

First you must repent of your sins, turn away from that old life that separates you from God. Luke 13:3 and Acts 2:38.

Confess His name. Matthew 10:32-33

And finally obtain forgiveness through baptism for the remission of your sins. Acts 2:38.

I’ve also attached the budget form I’ve created:

Zero Balance Time Budget

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Water or Vinegar?

February 4th, 2010 by Trey | No Comments

This past Sunday night, Jan 31st, 2010, I had the opportunity to speak at our (now) monthly Youth Devotional. Unfortunately due to nerves I forgot to start my recorder. I have my notes and I’ll try to edit them into something that resembles a recreation of that night. I did leave some of the points out in my notes out when I gave the lesson, but I’m keeping them in there because I believe they help the narrative better.

Four Cups

First, I started out with four different glasses containing clear liquid in front of me: a cup with a smiley face, a cup with Snoopy and friends on it, a swirled glass from Red Robin, and a Coca-Cola glass. I then asked for a volunteer.

Several hands shot up quickly. [Mr. Burns]Excellent.[/Mr. Burns] I called on one of them and asked him just to pick one of the glasses and drink what was in it. He grabbed the Coca-cola glass and took a BIG mouthful and immediately spit it out.

You see, only one of the glasses had water in it, the rest had vinegar.

Water and vinegar pretty much look the same. And sometimes on first glance, a lot of places of worship look the same.

Good things can come out of both water and vinegar. They’re both ingredients in some very tasty recipes, but there’s one thing water can do that vinegar can’t, and that’s quench your thirst.

The same is with places of worship. You see some of them doing a LOT of good, clothing people, feeding the poor, giving people something to feel good about, the list can go on for miles. However there is only one that has the water of Life that Jesus speaks of to the woman at the well in John chapter 4. We want to pick that one, and not the ones filled with vinegar.

And there are a ton of places to worship, all teaching some sort of religion, but according to Jesus in Matthew chapter 7 “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’

I then asked the volunteer: “Why’d you choose the one you chose?”

He responded with the typical, “I dunno…”

I guess he could’ve picked one of these glasses because he thought it looked cool, or maybe he likes Snoopy, or likes smiley faces… Or trusts that Coca-Cola would be the right one because that’s the one he’s heard of… Unfortunately none of these things have anything to do with what’s inside of them.

I recently had a conversation with a brother that has fallen away. He had come to my office to talk to me about selling life insurance, and was trying to garner some sort of rapport with me. “Hey, I heard you’re a member of the church of Christ too, is that right?”

I replied, “Sure am.”

“Do you still attend?”

I’d like to believe that I kept a straight face. If I’m a member, then I’m attending still, right? I replied affirmatively and told him which congregation I currently attend.

His response: “Oh yeah, I visited there once, it was too conservative for my tastes. You know how when you grow up in one type of church, you just gotta find something different.”

Again, I struggled to keep my expression from changing. He grew up in a place that knows and taught the truth, but instead of sticking with it, He has chosen to drink vinegar over water, because the design of the cup is different. Hopefully I can have a chance to talk to him about it in the future, maybe talk to him about the ultimate life insurance. I’ll try, but I’m not certain it will be any good. Paul warns Timothy of this in 2 Timothy chapter 4:

“For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth.”

He may have already made his decision.

He used the term conservative when talking about our congregation and I have to keep from rolling my eyes when people start throwing the labels conservative and liberal around in reference to places of worship. These are man-made labels. God doesn’t use them. There is really, only scriptural, and unscriptural.

Our decision of where to worship cannot be based on if its in a house or in a building, or how pretty and new the building is, or the number of people that attend, or how many kids they have in their youth group. It has to be based on something stronger, something that doesn’t change with the whims of the people that attend. It has to be based on the Truth.

I asked the volunteer, “If I’d let you, how would you determine which has water and which has vinegar?”

He replied with, “Smell them.”

Examine them, right? Perform some tests?

This is how we are to determine where we are to worship.

In 1 John 4:1, John tells us to “test the spirits” and warns us that “many false prophets have gone out into the world.”

We have to examine what they teach… and make sure that its the Truth.

Knowing that there is vinegar in some of these, if I hadn’t placed any restrictions, he would’ve done everything he could to find the glass with the water. Why then, with something so important on the line as their soul, would anyone want to choose without examining it first?

What If I were to pour some of this vinegar into the water, would he still want to drink the water? Even if a place does everything else right, but is just a little wrong in their teaching, they are still wrong.

We must study the Bible to know the Truth.

Paul, in his letters to Timothy stresses several times the importance of studying the Scriptures. In 2 Timothy 3 starting in verse 14 he says: “But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned them, and that from childhood you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.”

Timothy was like most of the kids I spoke to that night, he was raised by family that knew the Scriptures. Not everyone has had that luxury. Some people have been raised in religions that have false teachings, some don’t believe in studying the scriptures diligently. My eye twitches EVERYTIME I hear the phrase, “Oh that’s not a salvation issue” when baptism, or church attendance, or any number of scriptural issues are brought up.

Those kids are very blessed to have the parents they have. But what if I asked the parents to pick from a glass, and instead of tasting it, smelling it, or examining it, they grabbed one and handed it to their kids. Do you think that they would, knowing that it could have vinegar in it, drink it without testing it themselves?

The same applies to worship as well. I know that everyone that teaches at our church strives to teach only the truth, but I, along with the elders, and the teachers, can be wrong. Don’t take what we say at face value. It is each individual’s responsibility during sermons and classes to follow along in their Bible, take notes and study them afterward, and by all means, ask questions. Never stop testing the spirits, because ultimately, the only one that is responsible for your soul at judgment day is yourself.

We’d already heard Jeremy give the invitation that night, we’d sung an invitation song and given anyone an opportunity to come forward. I want to stress that that is not the only time that a person can respond to the Lord’s invitation. It can be anytime, day or night.

Apologetics Press

February 3rd, 2010 by Trey | No Comments

When I first started this blog I added the link to Apologetics Press in my Resources section, but never gave any details about it. Merriam-Webster defines the term Apologetics as a 1 : systematic argumentative discourse in defense (as of a doctrine) or 2 : a branch of theology devoted to the defense of the divine origin and authority of Christianity.

Basically Apologetics is defending the Bible. The Apologetics Press group is a non-profit organization dedicated to the defending of the Bible using logical, sound reasoning. They produce articles on all sorts of topics and desire only to spread the word of God through its defense.

Maybe someday I’ll be writing for them!

You can find out more about them by going to their About page here.

::Apologetics Press::